What are your ideas, dreams and expectations about life? Are they getting completed? Are you capable of saying that your life as it is today is the exact life you want to live?
If so, you are one of the luckiest people who have succeeded in finding the alignment between their real self, needs and reality. Having been born in favorable conditions makes it easier to get where we want to go, but it isn't a warranty for living a happy life.
If you are one of many who haven’t yet found the right circumstances to begin thriving, I hope to motivate you to search within yourself and find out what is there that really belongs to you and what is there in your life story that doesn’t reflect the real you of today, and could be left behind.
A simple focus on adjustment of your attitude towards life and all those wishes that you sense as 'imprisoned' within you and which you keep pushing aside, that is the starting point. Think what all is there - it can be frustration about the job that you keep ignoring, or a disappointment about your significant relationship that makes you want to run, yet you stay or change nothing because it is expected from you to follow the rules, and you want to be fair, a good accountable person with integrity. In some circumstances there isn't much we can do, but not all the doors are completely closed for you, no matter what your circumstances may be.
Most of the obstacles to creating your own authentic reality that feels like really yours are imposed by our own fears and unconscious prejudice.
Knowing this, you can reframe your thoughts and feelings in the way that serves you better. There are several ways of bringing yourself into the life that is more positive and more like your chosen life. Some people use the positive affirmations, focus and visualization and other techniques such as writing. All this is done initially on a conscious level, and it is affecting your subconscious mind that is somehow absorbing the new vocabulary, thoughts and feelings.
Daily use of these techniques can be your starting point towards building a positive personal capital which will bring you closer to achieving a happier, abundant life.